Just avoid the one where you try to preempt her attacks. That will just frustrate you and, worse, invest you in changing her behavior (which puts her in control) instead of brushing it off (which puts you in control). Congrats, good luck, and train your eyes on the good. Write to Carolyn Hax, Style, 1150 15th St.
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Meet the Baker of Kate and William’s Wedding Cake
The whole cake was […] Kates idea, says Cairns. Shes a very creative person and thats why it was so special. Kate gave Cairns a list of 17 different flowers that she hoped to see on the eight-tiered cakeincluding heather, lavender and sweet Williamsas well as a lace sample from her wedding dress, which was incorporated into the cakes design. Baking for the royal wedding was a particular challenge for Cairns and her team. But she also recognized that, despite the huge Westminster Abbey ceremony and international coverage, the cake was as personally significant for Kate and William as it would be for any couple on their wedding day. [W]hen you create a wedding cake youre not just creating a cake, youre creating memories.
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